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Updated pre mommy to-do list
Nicole McMullin
Aug 22, 2007

I’ve checked a few things off of my to-do list, but have a feeling I’ll add a few more before this becomes a new mommy to-do list.

I also decided not to use a doula. I think it’s a great idea, but am somewhat pressed for time and cash and need to get the essentials out of the way. I’ll just have to spend the next couple of weeks working with my hubby on ways that he can be supportive. I think he’s up to the task. We’ll both just have to work on not freaking out.

  • Install the car seats in both cars (The car seat bases are in the cars, they just need to be installed).

  • Move my home and set up the nursery (see below).

  • Sell my condo in Alexandria.

  • Check in with my health insurance provider; verify that all is well with my coverage and begin panicking about the bills.

  • Create a will (I purchased a software program that will help me take care of this at home).

  • Find local new parent groups to meet up with while I am on maternity leave, and hopefully on the weekends and evenings once I return to work.

  • Pick songs for baby’s first playlist (I’ve picked a few, but need more).

  • Select a pediatrician for baby girl.

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    Excellent article, really loved it!

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    Software Downloads
    Apr. 8, 2008 at 09:19 AM

    A list really does the trick… Though I seldom has the time to do one for urgent matters, keeping everything in mind gives me headaches with some items totally forgotten.

    Good luck with accomplishing what you have set up to do.

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    Michelle of Cebu, PH
    Apr. 4, 2008 at 03:51 AM

    Great blog I hope we can work to build a better health care system as we are in a major crisis and health insurance is a major aspect to many.

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    blue cross of California
    Apr. 3, 2008 at 12:26 AM

    The only thing that seems to help is to make lists.  My To Do list is getting out of hand lately and last night my lungs alerted me to the fact that it’s time I wrote some stuff down too.

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    offshore of L.A.
    Mar. 13, 2008 at 11:06 AM

    Beth,

    Thanks for the pediatrician and car seat info. I still need to install the bases for our car seats. I read the manaul and fumbled around with the base in my car, but still don’t have it installed properly. I think I’m going to stop by one of the inspection stations and get help.

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    Nicole McMullin of Richmond, VA
    Sep. 5, 2007 at 06:44 AM

    With the carseats: as long as the base doesn’t move more than an an inch front to back or side to side, it’s tight enough. Put lots of weight on it and have another person pull the belt tight (assuming you have locking seat belts--some you have to pull all the way out to turn them into locking belts, where you’ll hear it ratcheting back in, and others will have the locking mechanism in the latchplate itself). Just pay attention to any labels stitched onto your seatbelts, instructions in your owner’s manual, and the carseat manual. And remember the new law that went into effect July 1--no rear-facing carseats allowed EVER in a front seat with an airbag. If you need HELP!, call--I do the low-income carseat classes at the HD, and know way too much for my own good about carseats from personal experience. If you send an address, I’ll send some brochures!

    Many hospitals will give you a discount on your hospital delivery co-pay if you pre-register before you come in for delivery. If baby has to be readmitted for jaundice, feeding issues, etc.--that’s where it gets expensive!

    I absolutely love Dr. Chris’s (AKA Dr. Christine Privitera, but she’s Dr. Chris to the kids) at Lee-Davis Pediatrics in Mechanicsville (near LD High). She has been Carys’s dr. from the beginning, and I moved Jake to her shortly thereafter. She is considerate, understanding, and has all the connections in the world. She has been so helpful to us with Jake’s issues, and some of Carys’s, too. I know it would be a short drive, but a good dr. is worth it (we drive from Tappahannock to go to her!). I have also heard good things about Richmond Pediatrics in Mechanicsville (beside Cracker Barrell). Many drs. associated with VCU are going to be worth checking out, too--you’d have everything you could possibly need at your fingertips with the newest information available at all times. Start looking now; sometimes you can find online reviews of drs., too. Oh, and I know Dr. Chris’s office offers a “New Parents” night to meet the docs; I bet other offices do, too.

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    Beth Perry of Tappahannock, VA
    Aug. 27, 2007 at 08:23 AM

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